I miss you everyday, kuya

Happy Birthday to my dear kuya Sonny. πŸ™‚ I know you’re having a blast there in heaven. We miss you, I miss you. We were talking about you the other day, we shed a few tears knowing that we won’t be seeing you in a while. It is never easy. Mom still cries when she remembers you. I know that she misses you a whole lot too. I know you are at peace, and that you’re in a better place now. Watch over us. Always look after your kids, sibs and extended family.

I miss you kuya. (Pero wag mo ko dalawin ah, medyo freaky!)

I found hell in Coastal Road’s Tollgate

It takes a lot of skill to be a driver in Manila. Believe me when I say that for the longest time that I have been driving, what I have experienced is not even half of what happens on a daily basis in Manila traffic. I have experienced being stuck in EDSA for four (4) freakin’ hours because of an unexpected rain shower. I have my fair share of PUV drivers who drive recklessly on highways, national roads, etc just to get passengers. I’ve seen how crazy bus drivers can be, they don’t care if there are cars near them, all that matters is to get as many people as they can. Motorcycle drivers are also my latest pet peeve, how they arrogantly drive their motorcycles not even taking into account that there are specific lanes that they should occupy.

However, one takes the ultimate prize. The Coastal Road Tollgate, i must say not a day passes by without me cussing inside my car. Every day, and i say every day regardless if i am on my way to work (at night) or on my way home (in the morning) its still the same saga that I face all the time. What I don’t understand is how the lanes (ETAP, RFID, BEEP/CASH, etc) are arranged in the freakin’ tollgate. It’s in the middle of all the CASH lanes that all people if not 90% of drivers use. Before I even get into the booth, I’ve already spent almost an HOUR of my time just to traverse the crazy line of cars, vans, jeeps, buses, etc. Just imagine, AN HOUR to pay your toll and when you’ve successfully traversed the craziness, all you will see is an all clear ETAP lane! It’s just unbelievable!

What irritates me that most is when you ask the security guards that are stationed in the RFID lane, they would give lame answers if not stupid answers that makes the situation all the more aggravating. One time, we confronted a teller (i am sorry miss, i know its not your responsibility) and asked for someone to deal with the congestion, her reply was “marami po kasing nakaharang” I know! I am not blind, I can perfectly see na maraming nakaharang. Then some guard will intervene and say “Puro po kasi bago yung mga tao” Is it our fault as drivers? Do something about it!

We made an effort and spent money availing the etap card and rfid because we wanted to get through the tollgate in the fastest way possible. However, I don’t get it why the Cavitex people don’t realize that everyday is hell in Coastal road.

Hindi po libre ang pag gamit ng Coastal road, kaya nga po kami ng-avail ng ETAP or RFID kasi gusto namin makadaan ng tollgate ng matiwasay at mabilis. Please lang, wag na natin hintayin na may magkarambola, mgkainitan ng ulo, mgkabarilan or mgkasakitan sa kalsada para mapansin nyo yung hirap na pinagdadaanan namin mga motorista, araw-araw. Gawan nyo ng paraa yan mga sir. Isipin mabuti ang mga sinasabi kasi hindi nakakatuwa.

Feeling Great @ 30

Every year, I would always wonder how getting a year older would feel like. I always get excited on how many IG posts, Facebook shoutouts and birthday comments I get for every birthday I celebrate. I always hope that I surpass the number greetings I got the year before.There is always that feeling of beating the year before, in any way, shape or form.

2016 is definitely a year to remember, especially for those who share the same birth year as myself. This year, we are ringing in our 30th year. I was always worried on how I can make my 30th birthday memorable. I thought of going on a staycation and enjoy the remaining moments of my late twenties. Being 30th felt like there is that dark cloud ahead, an inevitable dark cloud. (lol!)

When it was finally my birthday, it was nothing but normal. I guess, reporting to work made it more like any regular day. (haha!) Kidding aside, it felt like I was just 20. It is true when they say that age is just a number. It really is more of how you perceive life and how you play it. Age is part of life, no matter what we do. How we handle our birthdays and being a year older makes all the difference.

If you ask me two months ago how I am feeling being 30, i’ll tell you I am terrified. Now that I am 30, heck! it doesn’t change anything. I am still me. I guess, ask me next year when I turn 31.